WQ #160: February 14: Beliefs/Holidays/Valentine’s Day Love

Happy Valentine’s Day Wednesday! Welcome to #WQ (Wednesday Quotes). Here’s your chance to showcase your photos, poems, thoughts, and stories about beliefs that inspire. We celebrate Valentine’s Day, which is as basic as our belief in love. As always, feel free to combine your favorite challenges and double dip. All you need is one excellent quote about the topic. 

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Category: Beliefs Inspire Us

I remember making Valentine’s cards for friends and family. Little cards printed on a sheet, torn apart, and signed were part of the activities done in school on February 14th from the time I went to school through the years I taught school years later.

Valentine’s Day was part of a belief system in which we were taught to like everyone regardless of whether or not they were our best friends. Everyone got a card, usually with a candy heart inside and their name printed on the envelope. Even now we have one day at least everybody can celebrate the fact that we have loved ones in our lives.

We develop our beliefs from our earliest years. A belief is a personal acceptance that a statement is true or that something exists. More than anything, we trust our beliefs. Beliefs stir up controversies, raise tensions, and even create wars when people’s belief systems are not compatible.

Most holidays, religious or otherwise, stem from shared beliefs within a country or some unifying group. You may have brainstormed what you believe and where those beliefs came from. This is my unexpanded list.

  1. Inherited – our parents taught us what their parents taught them, and we accept those beliefs as true.
  2. Religion or lack of a religion guides our beliefs, laws, and national customs
  3. We learn beliefs from influencers – teachers, friends
  4. Scientific beliefs help us make sense of how the world operates
  5. National and religious holidays celebrate beliefs and unify people
Going out for ice cream – a loving tradition started by Mom.

Love Quotes

“If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.”

A. A. Milne

“The Eskimos had fifty-two names for snow because it was important to them: there ought to be as many for love.” 

Margaret Atwood

“My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.”

John 15:12 

“Do to others as you would have them do to you.”

Luke 6:31

“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”

Proverbs 17:17

What do you believe about love? How do you celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Pink and Red Flowers Celebrate Valentine’s Day

Our patio in Scottsdale – play as a puzzle
Friends spent the weekend and brought us tulips.
Up close and personal with a pink tulip

I want to thank Smitha at Eúnoia for the lovely review of The is How We Grow. She mentioned my chapter and how it changed her blogging. That’s the best compliment I’ve had about my writing.

Tanka Tuesday – Early Spring February 3-20

Kigo Words – blossoms, Valentine’s Day, roses

Elderwood field of peach trees
Valentine's Day comes
scents of blossoms and roses
vases of tulips

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98 responses to “WQ #160: Happy Valentine’s Day – Beliefs Like Love Inspire Us ”

  1. I loved this theme and wished I had time to join in last week but vacation busyness did not allow for it. I loved the quotes and verses you shared. As well as the photos of course.

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    1. Thank you Kirstin. Have a wonderful time on your vacation. I look forward to hearing all about it. 🙂

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  2. Valentine’s Day was not a thing in India when I was growing up. As a result, it’s not something my husband or I celebrate. But I wouldn’t pass on that ice-cream if it was part of the deal! 😉

    I loved the review by Smitha. Your concept of blogging and this lovely feature you’ve created has certainly helped my blogging, Marsha. I’m so blessed to have ‘found’ you this year. Thank you for the inspiration!

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    1. What a lovely comment, Corinne. Thank you so much. I think the point of Valentine’s Day is that we are motivated by the beliefs and experiences we have growing up. I don’t do much to celebrate Valentine’s Day either, but I do enjoy the chocolate candies.

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  3. A beautiful tribute to Valentine’s Day, Marsha. I don’t celebrate the holiday since my kids are grown up, but I feel loved everyday when my husband makes my latte and sprinkled it with nutmeg and sugar. Those little acts of kindness reinforce the warmth and tenderness of love me. 

    And your poem is wonderful. It exudes spring. Love-ly post, my friend. ❤

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    1. Oooooo, I love exuding! Thank you so much for the lovely words. My husband makes me coffee every morning, but I like to doctor it myself. I will hardly drink coffee anywhere else, though because his is iconic. 🙂 xxxx

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      1. Awww. I love that. My husband has it down to a science too. Happy Exuding. Lol

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        1. Husbands are great! 🙂

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    1. Too weird about In Linkz. Your post is beyond words.

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  4. A belated Happy Valentine’s Day, Marsha. Here’s my latest beach walk about Love, that is a bit quirky. https://beachwalkreflections.wordpress.com/2024/02/10/217-love-v3/

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  5. […] Marsha mentioned in her WQ post that beliefs are inherited, whether taught by our parents or inspired by others. My parents LOVED visiting national parks every summer. Because of that leisure ethic and legacy, I can’t drive within 100 miles of a national park (or state park) without stopping in for a visit. We have several iconic national parks here in the Western USA, and I have been so fortunate to have visited many of them and several state parks. […]

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  6. Happy belated Valentine’s Day, Marsha.

    You’re mother and I would get along well; I love going out for ice cream.

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    1. You and my mother would be great friends. Everyone loved her, and she was a great adopted mother to most of my friends. BTW, when we got back to Prescott there was a beautiful card waiting for us. Thank you so much!

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  7. Marsha, I hope you had a wonderful Valentine’s Day. I love the flowers and sunlight in your patio. Their colours just pop. The field of flowering peach trees looks beautiful, too. Thank you for your weekend coffee share.

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    1. Thanks, Natalie. I just finished reading all the entries so far. Spring is in the air, and so are books. We are back in Prescott now, and there is snow on the ground and some trees have tightly closed buds on them. That’s it.

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  8. A lovely poem, Marsha and great pictures. I never even thought about including Valentine’s Day in my Tanka Tuesday poetry. It barely features for me – smile!

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    1. Thank you, Roberta. It’s not a big deal for us either except that we started dating on Feb. 11, 29 years ago. 🙂

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      1. That’s lovely. We got married on 9 February 2001.

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        1. Happy belated anniversary. I remember seeing that on Facebook. 🙂 xxx

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  9. Fun and thoughtful collection of quotes about love, and I adore the photos of the tulips – one of my favorite flowers! Hope you had a wonderful Valentine’s Day!

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    1. You, too, Kym. See you on your website soon. 🙂

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  10. My husband and I don’t really do anything special for Valentines Day, which suits us just fine. We had to run in to the grocery store for some last-minute dinner shopping last night though and saw a lot of people – mostly men – grabbing whatever flowers and candy they could before going home. I’m guessing they might have seen flowers delivered at work and thought Uh-oh…

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    1. hahaha Vince would be better at that, but it doesn’t impress me because I’m allergic to flowers inside and I’m usually on a diet or watching what I eat. I’m such a boring romantic!

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  11. Your flower photos are beautiful, Marsha. Valentine’s Day here is just a commercial thing promoted by the shops and we don’t really do anything special. I hope you and Vince had a lovely day.

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    1. We held hands on the couch while we watched a movie. LOL

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  12. Your flower photos are so beautiful this week, Marsha. Valentine’s Day here is just a commercial thing and we don’t really do anything special. I hope you and Vince had a lovely day.

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    1. I don’t have any idea how YOUR comment ended in my spam folder. What’s up with the WP AI??? Thanks, we had a quiet Valentine’s Day. We were cleaning the condo getting it ready for our guests! 🙂

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      1. I’m not surprised at all. I’ve been having problems commenting on a couple of blogs recently. The comments just disappear into thin air. But it hasn’t happened with yours before. 😦

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        1. Luckily I check all my spam before I permanently delete them. So if you ever don’t get a response from me, you know that I had 700 spam and I didn’t plow through them. 🙂

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          1. I do too. If I do it every day there aren’t so many.

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          2. I don’t have them like I used to. I think WP has worked on it recently. I was stopping comments after 30 days, but I don’t need to do that anymore.

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  13. What a colourful and ‘love’ly post this is, Marsha! So many beautiful flowers.

    It’s been ages since I participated in #WQ

    I wonder how all you super-bloggers keep up with it all! 😃

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    1. We don’t write books or correct books other people mess up! 🙂

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  14. Happy Valentine’s Day Marsha! what lovely blooms in words and a great review by Smitha! What a great gift to receive to her! That’s a great tribute❣️

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    1. Thank you, Cindy. So sorry about your dad. I hope he feels better soon!

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      1. You’re welcome, Marsha! Thanks so much.. mee too❤️

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  15. Happy valentine’s day 💘 Very nice & interesting post. So Lovely red roses & tulips!

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    1. Thank you, Happy Valentine’s Day to you, too, Raj.

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      1. Most welcome !

        Have a good day!

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  16. […] makes me feel less guilty; knowing that I’m not the only one who feels like this. Marsha Ingrao’s chapter on ‘Blogging and Rekindling’ made me relook at my blogging journey. She […]

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  17. […] participating in Wednesday Quotes challenge, February 14: Beliefs/Holidays/Valentine’s Day Love. The challenge is hosted by Marsha.Here’s my Haiku on account of Valentine’s Day. […]

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    1. Thanks for sharing, Smitha.

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  18. […] I’m linking in to Marsha Ingrao’s blog – WQ #160: Beliefs/Holidays/Valentine’s Day Love – the linky will be up on 14 […]

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    1. Thanks for sharing, Corinne.

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  19. Marsha, you are the consummate blogger. You just directed me to Smitha’s fine review, which I read with interest, finding out things about her that I didn’t know, and bouncing back here, of course. I hope you had a great Valentine’s Day. How did you spend it? Roses, chocolates? I had a bag of crisps. A big one, but I bought it myself….

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    1. Hahaha Vince and I went to Old Scottsdale and walked around heading right for the Sugar Bowl for ice cream the first thing. Yum! We hadn’t been there, but it’s kind of famous here. Other than that we finished spring cleaning getting our condo ready to rent to our blogging friend, John Steiner for two months. We can’t wait to see him and his wife. Our car is packed and we are ready to go. We’re meeting them for lunch tomorrow then heading back to Prescott. 🙂

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      1. Never a dull moment! Have a fantastic time together.

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        1. I don’t write about the dull moments, LOL! The joys of social media is we write about what makes our life look exciting, I guess. Your life looks very exciting to me. 🙂 Lots of love, Jo. 🌸🌹💐

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          1. I was chasing nutmeg this morning. Can’t get more exciting than that, and thanks for the link 🤣🩷

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          2. Wow, I’ve never done that. LOL Did you catch it?

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          3. I caught 6! For 5 euros 🤣💙

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          4. There you go! Six grains of nutmeg – you bargain hunter, you!

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          5. 6 whole ones! Know anyone who needs a nutmeg?

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          6. I’ve never seen one in real life. I’m not a big fan all ground up either. How can you use six whole nutmegs?

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          7. Slowly….. Actually, one will be a gift, so only 5.

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          8. Interesting, Jo. I know more about nutmeg in the last few comments than I have known in my life. 🙂 LOL Go apple pie and pumpkin bread.

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  20. Happy Valentines Marsha. A lovely post filled with lots of love 🥰

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    1. Thank you, Brian. Happy Valentine’s Day. 🙂

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    1. Happy Valentine’s Day, Lady Lee. 🙂

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  21. Lots of love here, Marsha. I have such nice memories of school and picking out just the right valentines for my friends and then of course decide who would get what. I love the cards, the sweets, the love, all of it. And still do.

    Your patio looks so welcoming. Springy and inviting.

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    1. Thanks, it will welcome, Johnbo tomorrow! 🙂

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  22. Hi there, bestie! What a great post to inspire all of us to enjoy a “holiday” where we can share our love of chocolate and a great dinner with loved ones! I love your choices of pink and red flowers–lucky you getting those tulips! We are spending the day indoors (except for my walk in the wind). I think we dined out so much on our trip, we’re both over too much food for now.

    I do remember creating Valentines Day card for school mates. If we didn’t make them in class, we used to buy a couple of pre-made sets with envelopes at Thrifty’s (remember?) and write our classmates’ name on the envelope and pass them all out in class. We laughed when someone made a special valentine to give to a boy or girl. I might have a been the recipient of one or two, and blushed profusely upon opening them.

    Always great to see your link to my Sunday Stills themes. By the way, that huge vat of pink ice cream looks good (once I cover it in chocolate syrup!)

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    1. That reminds me, I made fudge ice cream topping. Yum. It was so easy. It’s super dark chocolatey and not as sweet as you buy, but deliciously gooey. I vaguely remember trying to read deep feelings into some of the cards in about fourth or fifth grade. I was madly in love with Peter Trask. Funny that I remember his name. That’s all I know about him. 🙂

      Have a great day. We go home tomorrow. Sad day. It’s in the 70s today. I’m excited to see John and Lynn, though.

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      1. You’ll have to send me your fudge ice cream topping recipe! Enjoy your warm weather. Sunny here but windy and cold. Just came back from a walk…brrrr!

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        1. We’re in downtown Scottsdale at the Sugar bowl.

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  23. Happy Valentine’s to you, Marsha. I’m the sceptic. My mother taught me that Valentine is the patron saint of flower sellers. Valentine cards are not a custom in Germany but giving your loved one flowers is, as is going out for dinner. I had forgotten about the day and my sister and I spontaneously wanted to go for something to eat tonight and were amazed that we barely got a table (had to be finished within an hour, too!). Anyway, we had “spaghetti vongole” (which were great) so we had the appropriate food for the day.

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    1. My mother was not a flower person. Both of my parents had some serious allergies, and bringing live flowers inside just didn’t work for our family. I have the same problem, so most people know not to buy me flowers except ones that I can plant outside. 🙂 The sellers would have gone broke. 🙂 Glad you had the right meal. Why is that appropriate food?

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      1. The common name of these clams are venus clams. 🧡 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Veneridae

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        1. Thanks, why is that the appropriate meal for Valentine’s Day. Did St. Valentine eat clams?

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          1. Venus = goddess of love, I would think that’s a Valentine’s food if ever there was one.

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          2. Duh, I guess so. I was thinking about clamming up – not a good thing to do with the love of your life! 🙂

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          3. Definitely not. But if you’re cooked long enough you’re opening up – just like a mussel. 😉

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          4. Hahaha I’d be one hot chick! 🙂

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      2. Vongole is not just any mussel, it’s called Venus.

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        1. Aha, now it makes sense. I didn’t read carefully enough. TMI.

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  24. A super cool post. Thanks for hosting and I hope that you have a wonderful week.

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    1. Thanks so much for your comment! I hope you have a wonderful week, too. 🙂

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  25. […] Wednesday Quotes: Happy Valentine’s Day […]

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  26. Happy Valentine’s Day to you dear one. Your posts are always such a wealth of knowledge, tips and beautiful photography! I am honored to have met you and now am able to follow you along life’s journey.
    Enjoy this day filled with red and pink and hopefully some delicious chocolate!

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    1. I feel the same way about you and your posts, dear Nancy. Feel free to send me a link again to your Valentine’s post. It is so beautiful!

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  27. This is such a beautiful post, Marsha. Happy Valentine’s Day to you. Lovely tulips and roses. It’s such a wonderful custom to make Valentine’s Day cards for everybody at school whether they were a friend or not. We did not have that in school.
    Your chapter in the book was indeed useful for me. Thank you for sharing your blogging journey and tips on blogging.

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    1. Thank you, Smitha. I read an article in the NY Times debating the pros and cons of that practice. Pro – it was egalitarian, Con – it was artificial. I’m not sure I agree. Kids have big disagreements, but what they don’t realize at when they are young is that feelings are transitory. So they can be mad one minute and best friends the next.

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      1. I don’t agree with the con. At a young age, when it’s easy to mould minds, it’s best to teach kids egalitarianism. And it also ensures the quiet introverts, shy loners don’t get left out.
        It would have been nice if we had it in school.

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        1. Times change, I guess. Traditions do not all carry across the years, or they morph. I suppose it is one you could start with your own children. 🙂

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          1. I agree.
            My children are grown up now. 🙂 XXX

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