WQ #18: May 3: GROWING

WEDNESDAY QUOTES Logo by Donna @ Retirement Reflections
  • (of a living thing) undergoing natural development by increasing in size and changing physically.
  • becoming greater or increasing in prevalence, popularity, or influence
  • of, relating to, or being the period during which something (such as a plant) grows or matures

“Growing old is mandatory. Growing up is optional.”

— Walt Disney
Puppy Girl’s last picture at 13.5 people years – backlit and still willing to dress up.

Happy Wednesday, and welcome to #WQ. Here’s your chance to showcase your photos, poems, thoughts, and stories about growing. All you need is one awesome quote – which are hard to find unless you consider what is growing. I’m sorry, but I got carried away with the idea of growing. Feel free to skim, but don’t skip the very end where your posts are highlighted!

Back-Lit and Growing

“She’s a wild butterfly finding her way… just a girl growing wings.”

Butterflies Rising
Baby Moji was feeling her wings getting up on the back of the chair for the first time

This week Anne-Christine chose the topic of backlighting to challenge our photographic skills. Most of the pictures I’ve chosen for the theme of growing are backlit. This is one of my favorites. Moji was about five weeks old and now she is almost five years old, and did she ever grow!

Growing Brave

“Courage to me is doing something daring, no matter how afraid, insecure, intimidated, alone, unworthy, incapable, ridiculed or whatever other paralyzing emotion you might feel. Courage is taking action….no matter what. So you’re afraid? Be afraid. Be scared silly to the point you’re trembling and nauseous, but do it anyway!”

― Richelle E. Goodrich

For his 60th birthday my brother and I took a train trip back east to our home state of Indiana. On the way, we stopped at Chicago. When we first arrived, we found Pier Park on the bank of Lake Michigan. Not realizing my brother had such a deathly fear of heights, I convinced him to ride the Ferris Wheel with me. First built in 1893, the new Centennial Wheel, built in 2016 rises to a height of 200 feet. We were there in 2013, so this wheel only reaches 150 feet and was built in 1995.

Backlit Centennial Wheel at Navy Pier

Like 1.7 million visitors annually, we took an elevator up Willis Tower, the third highest building in the Western Hemisphere. When we reached the Skydeck on the 103rd floor, at 1,530 feet high, he stayed as far away from the windows as possible while I snapped pictures. When I circled around looking for him, he was in one of these Observation Ledges forcing himself to take a chance. We got our pictures taken then went on our way having both grown braver in the process.

Backlit and growing braver by the second

Growing Dark

“Sunset is so marvelous that even the sun itself watches it every day in the reflections of the infinite oceans.”

– Mehmet Murat ildan

Like I mentioned in the introduction, growing is a hard word for quotes. My back up tactic is to consider what growing describes and look up quotes for that word. So many of my pictures fit the description of growing dark, but this is my favorite sunset picture.

a backlit sunset in Hawaii

California Sunset Scenes

Growing Fearful

“If you happen to like scary movies, then you settle in, [and] enjoy the scare the way you enjoy a roller coaster.”

-Dr. Stephen Schlozman an assistant professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and the co-director of the Clay Center for Young Healthy Minds

“It was a dark and stormy night,” were the perfect opening words for a scary story when I was growing up. I found a picture to go with that opening line in my front yard in Woodlake. I have no idea what is in the background – just an unnamed monster. What do you think it was?

What words or visuals trigger your scare button?

Growing Impatient

Vince 20 years ago starting on the major remodel of our CA house.

Vince has pressed the gas pedal and we are off and remodeling our kitchen. I looked all over for before pictures, but alas, I didn’t take any until now.

The kitchen probably looked fantastic when it was built in 1985. Therma-foil cabinets were probably top of the line in 1990s when they came out. But you can see how they cracked and peeled over time. Heat and moisture are not their friends. You can’t refinish them, and they are heavy and hard to remove.

Our kitchen cabinets will come in on June 13. We have an installer. The new appliance can’t be ordered until Memorial Day, if we want a discount, and we want a discount. But never mind, the project is off and running, growing more complicated by leaps and bounds.

He’s excited. The new fan is in. I have a cracked stove and a bit of dust, but I think we will live.

Roads to Growth

“Studies have shown that a vacation can be beneficial for the overall development of your child. They come back happy and enriched, having experienced a beautiful world outside their home and exposed to different cultures and ways of living.”

Amruta Deshpande, Parent Circle

Not many of us can be like Anita of 100 Country Trek and visit 100/195 countries in our lives, but every trip you take your children or grandchildren expands their opportunities. Our youngest is beyond that and we have reached our second childhood so here are a few pictures from our recent road trip to Las Vegas. Notice the landscape is growing mountainous. Along the Nevada roadside is this industrial area where the state is growing electrical power.

Backlit Growing and Overgrown Plants

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52 responses to “#WQ #18: Growing Is Not Optional”

  1. Those images are lovely. I particularly love the cute little cat. And the plants too.

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    1. Thanks for visiting, Pooja. My cat is Moji and she’s huge now. We never saw that coming. Have a great day.

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      1. She is so adorable. Have a great day too.

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  2. So brave of your brother Marsha! Love that photo of Hawaii. You want won’t to leave your new kitchen once is installed will be lovely.
    When people say they don’t want to grow old I think there’s only one alternative then!

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    1. That’s for sure. And even that alternative is not an easy one. A lady in our church who’s 75-year-old husband is dying comes from a long-lived family. Her mother lived to be 100 and her grandmother lived to be 101. I wonder how old she will live to be.

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      1. She’s probably wondering that herself, a long widowhood awaits her 😦

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        1. I know! She has a huge family, though. Lots of support there.

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  3. […] week’s Wednesday Quotes is all about the concept of growing and I am choosing plants for my […]

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  4. Thanks for sharing these amazing images. Your kitchen will be.well down.

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    1. Thanks, Anita. I hope so. Right now we have no hot water, heat and our stove broke during demo day. So “soon” is a much-loved word around here! 🙂

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        1. You’re welcome! 🙂 What did I do? LOL

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  5. Hi Marsha,
    Here’s my post

    When we grow

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    1. Great post, my friend.

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      1. Thanks 🙏🏼

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        1. You’re welcome. 🙂

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  6. Loved reading your musings and seeing your images. Yes I understand kitchen renos! My husband used to do that as a business, and did a great job but it exacted a toll on his health so the business closed. He did, however, remodel the kitchen of the house we sold in 2015 and I am sure it helped achieve the price it did. He does still notice “other people’s work” and can be a bit critical!! Take care, Denyse

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    1. Thanks for the comment, Denyse. I am glad he is a bit critical and persistent. I don’t like being his assistant, though, and I have volunteered to do that, so keep me in your prayers as we move forward. LOL

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  7. Hi Marsha, Thank you for your weekend coffee share. Lots of lovely photos in your post. My favourites are the growing and overgrown plants and sunset in Hawaii. Good luck with your kitchen remodeling!

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    1. Thanks, Natalie, some of the growing and overgrown plants were in the Cosumnes River Preserve near Sacramento that we took last May.

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  8. Such lovely photos, especially the pup, and kitty!
    Looking forward to your new kitchen photos. Hang in there; it will all be worth it!

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  9. Love puppy girl. The better to hear you with.. sad she’s gone.. so cute.. those ears!
    Your pics are great.. I’m terrified just looking down at the height of the ferris wheel Marsha!
    We’re not getting older, we’re def getting wise. Like we’ll never remodel again after this.. right! lol. Looking good and can’t wait to see the finished product! 💗

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    1. I told Vince I am NOT doing this again after this. He will be 77, so I’m not sure if that’s true. He just can’t NOT do stuff. I made him hire someone to do the work, and he messed it up, so I am not sure I will even try to stop him from doing the work. He is such a perfectionist but that is one reason I fell in love with him. He was the answer to my dreams. 🙂

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      1. Aw, in spite of all the work and challenge. she’s so I love your special connection and love for him Marsha! You guys are a beautiful couple!

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        1. Thank you so much, Cindy. Such kind words.

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          1. You’re so very welcome always Marsha! ❣️

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  10. love all your growing photos and post, kitchen, dark, plants, adventures, etc. 🙂

    “Keep going, keep growing”

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  11. You have wonderful pictures. I haven’t seen the solar fields so close; did you drive up next to them in Vegas?

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    1. We were on the freeway, and I just snapped a picture out the window at 70+ MPH. Can you believe it? They were ubiquitous! Thanks for your comment. I hadn’t seen so many all together that close to the road before. The western states have so much barren land that is good for little else agriculturally – at least – that this makes a lot of sense.

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      1. It does! They must have added more than when I was there, last. I remember their being near the mountain and not by the road. I agree with you about the barren land!

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        1. I am sure the add more and more all the time. Thanks for commenting, my friend. 🙂

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  12. I grand prompt this week. Growing. It is everywhere. I loved your growing dark photos and growing brave. The kitchen will be beautiful when it is done, but it is never fun when going though it. And the orange rose is a beauty. Very nice Marsha.

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      1. Thank You so much, Donna. 🙂

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    1. Thank you, Donna. 🙂

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  13. I love seeing the growing mess in the kitchen as it gets remodeled, Marsha! Too bad about the cracked stove top–will the stove top work still? I peeked at your living room set up beyond the cabinets–it’s really cute! We hired a local electrician to wire and install a ceiling fan in the living room today–amazing how they can wire without the use of an attic or crawl space above the ceiling. There was a growing concern but they got ‘er done! Love your LV pics of the road–those solar farms are incredible in their scope. Soon the entire desert will be covered! Your backlit images came out very nice and love all the quotes! Sweet little Puppy-girl–you will have to attach a Yoda quote to that pic in another post (May 21–pets and playgrounds, how about that?)! Cute pic of you and your brother, too.

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    1. Thanks, Terri. You covered it all! The stove top does work, but can you imagine getting a bit of moisture into those cracks? I can’t. We have it covered so the cat won’t walk on it and get glass in her feet. Our poor electric guy wasn’t so lucky. He spent several hours in the attic and I think about ruined himself. He ruined some of the stuff and wasted about 2 hours of his time up there and went to lunch super mad. His wife was at In and Out Burger and calmed him down. We ended up at the same place. He wasn’t going to come back, but he did. I hope the rest of the day went better. I escaped and went to Bible Study. I’m off to Scottsdale tomorrow to meet with the other bloggers on Fri. Yay!

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      1. I guard my electric stovetop with my life and cleaning products, LOL! Hans still doesn’t know how to cook on it–constantly overboiling something! It must be hot in the attic this time of year, wow, glad the electrician’s coming back. Good thing you high-tailed it to church! Have fun meeting with bloggers–say hello for me!

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        1. I will say hi. I’m going to have to get ready pretty soon! The poor guy came out sweating like crazy. He had on a protective suit and mask in addition to his clothing. It was a miserable time for him.

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  14. Eeek, a kitchen remodel. It’s always the best and worst, haha.
    XOXO
    Jodie

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    1. I’m hiding out in Scottsdale for a couple of days. Pretty smart, eh?

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  15. You have some gorgeous photos in this post, Marsha. And yay for the new kitchen. It will all be done in no time. I hope we get to see after photos when it’s finished.

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    1. Oh yes, I’ll post more pics. Remodels are Vince’s MO. He does love to see the finished product. The first picture was what was originally the front door, living room and one small bedroom in our other house. It became our master bedroom and bath with no door.

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  16. I love all your photos, especially the garden ones. Hope your kitchen remodel goes smoothly – it seems like a long time to wait before it’s all done, but oh, it will be worth it, I’m sure!

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    1. Remodels always take twice as long and are twice as expensive as you think they will be. 🤪

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  17. Yeah for Vince! Great job! Moji certainly did grow!! 🙂 I like your dark and stormy night shot and I completely empathize with your brother, not being a person enamored of heights myself!!

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  18. Hi Marsha, lots of lovely pictures. I see that Los Vega’s is harnessing the power of the sun. We are trying to do that here in South Africa to ease our electricity crisis. I enjoyed all your quotes and think your brother was very brave to accompany you if he is scared to heights. Bravo to him.

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    1. My poor brother has a balance problem (inner ear) I’ve had him on boats and all sorts of adventures. Bravo for both Vegas and S. Africa. for harnessing the sun. We are struggling for all the basics now – power and water.

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      1. Yes, I’ve read about it.

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